The counselling program Transform Your Relationship (Beziehungstransformation nach Robert Herrmann®) is suitable for adults in partnerships of all ages and genders, regardless of the type of relationship, if you are willing to work on your relationship together.
If you both feel a YES for yourselves as a couple and want to revitalise the quality of your relationship, I will be happy to support you on this adventure.
Here you invest in your emotional intelligence, contact and relationship skills and new creative possibilities. This investment is sustainable and valuable. What you learn here will have a positive impact on your love life and your relationship forever.
I have personally experienced it first-hand and have seen it for years while supporting my clients, how challenging and at the same time rewarding conscious relationship building is.
I do this work out of deep dedication, because I believe that it is possible for everyone to create a fulfilling couple relationship in which each partner can grow, thrive and develop, in which everyone feels supported, carried and encouraged. That is why I have developed my passion project Transform Your Relationship.
Transform Your Relationship is the essence of years of working with couples and individual clients in my practice and online.
It is completely normal for couples in long-term relationships to experience crises. The decisive difference is how you deal with your crisis.
In my perception, every crisis is an invitation to grow individually and together.
As soon as two people create a couple relationship with each other, three relationship spaces (I, You & We) are automatically created. Each partner brings their own history, experiences and imprints as well as their own nervous system to the relationship.
Awareness of the protective and survival strategies of the respective nervous systems is important when we enter into relationships. For example, if we as adults in a relationship have the feeling of being restricted (fear of losing our own autonomy) or the feeling of losing the bond (fear of losing the bond and connection), our nervous system reacts accordingly. In couple relationships, two completely different ‘individually programmed nervous systems’ with their respective capacities often come together. If a couple consciously researches these capacities, unhealthy conflict escalations can be minimised in the future and mutual understanding and empathy, as well as the ability to deal with patterns and reactions on one's own responsibility, increases enormously.
It will be important for you as a couple to be radically honest, to expose yourselves, to reveal yourselves. Laying your cards openly on the table sometimes brings surprises, new and challenging things. Questions such as: What really moves me? What is bothering me? What am I feeling right now? What do I need? What do you need? What do we need? will become an important part of your transformed couple relationship. With a needs-orientated attitude and a new culture of caring for your couple, you will take your relationship to a new level.
Through numerous practical exercises for your everyday life and the sessions with me, you will learn to significantly expand your contact, conflict, relationship and communication skills. Together you will co-create the best version of your relationship.
Relationship transformation is not superficial ‘cloud-pushing’, but an intensive development process consisting of 6 couple therapy sessions, 2 individual counselling sessions, psychoeducation, regular homework, self-awareness exercises and support with questions and emergencies in the periods between sessions. During your relationship transformation we will look at all key areas of your relationship and explore the core of your relationship dynamics, problems and challenges and find new ways, courses of action and solutions.
Empathetically and effectively, I will accompany you step by step on your journey to a happy, vibrant and fulfilling relationship.
I have structured transform your relationship in 4 phases, whereby these do not have a rigid framework, but rather provide inspiration and guidance. We adapt your relationship transformation flexibly and individually to your needs.
